am i just too old-fashionned or what?.........

most guys without hesitation reach for something b4 askin the girl in front of them if they want anything or not.....like the guy take the last cookie when its just a guy and a girl in the running for it.... dont ask if she wants half just grab and run....whats up with that?.... to me thats a rude thing to do.....is that old fashionned?.......wether the girl wants it or not you should ask right?...am i wrong in thinking that?..........i might be a 1/4 century old well almost but i dont think thats so wrong....am i just too old-fashionned or what?......like for instance if im cooking ill make for everyone and bring it to them drinks forks plates and all..... why do i not get that in return?......and no this isnt directed towards chris just a general thought.....let me know if ive been living in a cave or what?......
what do u think?