so in love?

what is love anyways?...according to the dictionary the following applies...

A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.
Sexual passion.
Sexual intercourse.
A love affair.
An intense emotional attachment, as for a pet or treasured object.
A person who is the object of deep or intense affection or attraction; beloved. Often used as a term of endearment.
An expression of one's affection: Send him my love.
A strong predilection or enthusiasm: a love of language.
The object of such an enthusiasm: The outdoors is her greatest love.
Love Mythology. Eros or Cupid.
often Love Christianity. Charity.
Sports. A zero score in tennis.


in reality love means sex communication snuggling marriage sharing bills and maybe children... it doesnt get much more then that other then some type of infatiation where someone gets murdered for breaking it off....i mean why all the hype...."oh, im sooo in love" well last year or even last week you were with someone else....come on....10 years in and you can say yr in love...under that the emotional baggage is just tremendios with girls and guys nowadays...i mean there should be a rule if you're dating under 10 years you should not be allowed to have kids or get married..i mean dont get me wrong im in the get married in 5 years and have kids category but i really should head my own advise though however age does play a factor sort-of...im 26 not getting any younger but i want to be married befoer i get pregnant thats my motto im not waiting till im 34....its time for me now and those are my beliefs...this rant is more for the very young 20 yr old mom's with a divorce under their belt and another marriage on the way...i understand the repecussions of doing that and having kids and what it can do to change my life forever...custody allemony my god i know....but for the most part people starting relationships at 16 then engaged by 18 then married at 20 and kids earlier or by 21....its sick how many really last....why is this happeneing?...in the old days you got married and stayed together no matter if the man beat the woman or they cheated nowadays theres annulments and 24 hour chappels in vegas...come on...i dont think a woman should stay with a man if they do those things but if you are with a man for 10 years you know if he's gonna be like that under 2 yrs you dont....lets get real people lets start talking and making this rediculous "early wedding fad" a thing of the past!!!